We need to talk about your bum. Your walnut-shaped G-spot, or prostate gland, or P-spot, if you prefer, is two inches or so inside the rectum; it needs no map or GPS — you require only two hands and an ability to get over yourself. Very much into your Highway Code and keen to observe one-way traffic? Does it really matter what other people think of your sexual peccadilloes?
Just how 'gay' is anal play, really?
The Straight Man's Guide to Receiving Anal Sex from Your Girlfriend
Relationships, like produce, milk and reality television stars, have a shelf life. Most couples find that after a few weeks, months, or years, the luster fades and the initial carnal fury that brought them together has dissipated. The moldy codgers who get past this sexual brick wall do so by developing an elaborate series of coping mechanisms. Infidelity is common in scenarios where one or both sexual partners become fed up with plain vanilla missionary. Sometimes, the couple just resigns themselves to erotic entropy, and embraces a sort of marital celibacy typified by the nightly ritual of 'reading magazines' or 'checking the scores on ESPN. For those of you out there who want to tell me how love can sustain itself over decades, allow me to offer you the following completely non-scientific statistical breakdown:. The easiest way to go about joining the 11 percent which is far more vital to the national discourse than the 99 percent or the 47 percent is through the back door.
The Straight Guy's Guide to Anal Play
She told me about one guy who shook nervously the entire time they had lunch. She told me about another guy who wined and dined her with an expensive dinner neither one of us could afford and dancing afterward. This guy must really like her, I thought, to be messaging at all hours after a one-night stand. My friend laughed and just handed over the iPhone:.
Lots of straight men are turned off by the idea of anal play to be fair, many bi and gay men are too , and as a result are missing out on a whole world of fun. This is the third in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. Seriously though, your anus and rectum are full of nerve endings, just like your penis.